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We are the first parent, we overcome a lot of difficulties, and the baby is coming down well, the second one can come! Yeah, but what does the first thing mean?Not necessarily overwhelmed with happiness, but there is a lot we can do to make your brother's arrival a joyous event!
From the first minuteEven very young children are noticed when their moms behave abnormally: they are always lame, sick, irritable - and larger cats are asking about the strangest.
It's not worth secreting very much, because sooner or later, things will come to light and the little one might feel like their parents have been deceived. Let's tell him everything he wants, according to his age. Of course, the situation is different if you are afraid of buying something - in this case, it is better to wait for the dangerous period to pass.
What to say?Two to three years old, a toddler notices that he is born a little brother, and may have seen others with big tummies. At this age, "how did you go in?" and "what's coming out?" only rarely asked. If you are not particularly interested, then at the beginning we will say that mother is baby, and that is why her body will change. However, the parents are almost certainly nailed to parents by their inquiries.
At the center: ХLittle ones love to hear about themselves. Here's the best time to take a photo album and get some fun together when he was in the tummy. These intimate, attention-only conversations can trigger a series of inquiries, so you shouldn't think twice about what you have to say. Let's tell you what it was like when we expected himto prepare for your birth! The terribly worn-out Kurdish armband, the first photographers, the little dresses, reinforce the sense that his person is very important.
It's difficult to share
At a young age, a decline in room cleanliness, eating disorders, bigger nightmares, and behavioral problems can call attention to the fact that the child is distracted by something. They find it particularly difficult to accept that because of the growing tummy of their mother, they cannot be lifted so many times, and that more intense games are paused for a few months.
That's when the Father's time comes! You can wrestle with them unlimited, and jump on and on. The little ones are very well-meaning and cooperative if we approach them well. Let's learn that Mom can only caress, hug, embrace, the rest of the father's business. Of course, for this to happen, motherly love must continue to be felt and felt.
However, we are not prepared for the possible night rushes, but the exhaustion of the parents. That's why let's get family members involved in their little lives in the future so that they don't have to confront their father after birth or his grandmother goes for it. When looking for a baby with a baby, we strive to get to know and love each other in time.
Crossing a car
The baby carriage is not cheap and is relatively unnecessary and relatively impossible to transport. It is better to leave the big brother in his car and carry the little one with us, which gives you greater freedom of movement. It is a great idea to get a step ladder for your existing car, but here too, of course, you have to be persuaded to take a seat instead.
GraduallyWhen a brother is born, it is easy for a little few days to see her mother, unless she is born in a family-friendly family. That's why prepare for our absence!
Because the father will probably be with the baby, somebody else will take care of the small child who is staying at home. Don't forget to call your attention to this in advance, let's say who you will be with, who you will spend your birth days with. If you need to sleep somewhere else, this should not be your first time in life, try it a few times in the past.
Now it's big
Let's try to imagine ourselves: how can everyone skip a little? Ask the brothers to get a little involved first. Guide them to the baby. It will also feel important and "great". After a week or two, you can get new tasks: push the stroller, rock it in the hanger, "tinkle" with it, or have it entertained (sings, says).
I have no time for anything! "
"Yes, I deal with all the hardships!"
"Every day is the same"
What will we need?To get started:
- old photos of the "big" baby;
- baby books, "lighted books";
- baby diaper diaper (also for toddlers);
- demanding, new storybooks, card games, board games - to choose from.
When the little one came(as required):
- experienced, supportive friends, relatives;
- Emergency Shoe Box with pocket, patterned cassette, and other interesting but unsafe items;
- hangman - this is where the big one can rock.
Don't go back!THE two years of age is not enough to publicize our firstborn. It is during the racking period that he often finds that in his experimentation of gloom, a good few things are still not as easy as he wants. They also prefer to be treated temporarily younger, and this role will be eliminated. However, it is wise enough to notice that the baby is preferred. That is why we should always give her first breakfast, cocoa, tell her a story, sing to her - as we have done so far.
Let's prepare her a little tray of fruit juice, a fruit table, green snacks while we breast-feed a little. Let's sit down with him and tell him so that he can enjoy these intimate moments. Of course, if you are immersed in the game, take advantage of the trouble-free minutes. Let's sew or buy her and her little brother some uniforms. We put the baby on paper, granny in a dollhouse, a zoo, and not the other way around.
Observe what you like better: taking part in your baby's activities or just dealing with it. We can rest assuredly to your senses! The relationship between the brothers and sisters will change, but we can save a lot of bitterness in the first half by keeping in mind our sensibility.
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